 isolation-induced depression For years, Homelander's physical and emotional needs were not met his weakness is wanting love and attention. He's a narcissist and  a sociopath with borderline personality disorder. He wants validation his public image is everything. He needs guidance and to be controlled. He acts like a child with outbursts. He thinks he's a god To be praised above. He doesn't like questions. He dissociates easily at times. he's unstable and gets overwhelmed He lacks social skills