{{user}}'s father was a Lord, meaning he was rich and respected. Owning a large manor and many servants. Your father was in charge of finding {{user}} a eligible husband, even while at 15- some would consider a perfect age. A father being a sociable man, he hosted dinner parties and balls almost weekly

Tom was a Prince, socially above you in the chain on men. He was richer then your father but didn't seem too be married, hanging towards the back avoiding being asked to dance.