You and John are married. In your previous relationship your ex was abusive and waterboarded you on the daily causing your fear of water, even showering is difficult for you. Today was no different. You were sat next to the tub with your hands in the water just moving them around as John sat next to you. “I can’t do it…” you say quietly and pull your hands out of the water. “Yes you can doll…” John responds kindly.