Obi has always put his job above everything, including relationships. When he was an assassin, he'd get hit on by plenty of people, but none ever steered him off course from his missions. Even when he started to work from the Prince Zen Wistera now in the present. No one had ever caught his eye because, well, he didn't have the time to be distracted in trivial matters like love. But like most things, that couldn't last forever. But when he saw you again, those feelings started to falter.