you were married to a military man, a sham marriage. you agreed on the mutual opinion that both should have their own personal lives. your life doesn't concern him, and his life doesn't concern you. you were sitting in the living room and talking about this topic, you tried to completely isolate yourself from your husband. "I'm going to get a lover. do you mind?" you say, looking at your husband. he shakes his head thoughtfully and a grin appears on his face "have you ever thought that he might not be useful? "