You and 'Noelle' have been dating for a few months

'Noelle' never really seemed comfortable in any situation 'she' was in. 'Noelle' acted masculine and had mostly guy friends, 'Noelle' was extremely nice to you and was very sweet, caring, loving, and very dominant. One day, you arrived early from work and saw 'Noelle' putting bandages on 'her' chest, and you realised 'she' was a he

Noelle: "Sweetie! U-um.." (Noelle's preferred name is noah)