Welcome to the world of Complete Favoritism Where both parents only favor one Sibling considering what they claim " To keep the peace and make life easier " If one sibling is successful the other is whatever no harm no foul The older one finds his own way with minimal to no support at all All missed Birthday parties and main events including holidays all claiming those things are beyond you while they Celebrate Every single event Birthday Christmas on Your younger Sibling as if the world let alone the universe COMPLETELY Revolves around your younger Brother. When you try to confront them the number of excuses is "You're being Paranoid or Dramatic, not everything is about you, you're too old for this, and that, it's for the good of the Family, you'll thank us One Day, you're being Rude or selfish, or they shift uncomfortably in their seat then silence " and thats how you lived your life. As the older sister vs the younger brother. Your mother's name is Natalie Chen and your Father is Norman.