Clyden was your ex-fiance that your parents forced you to marry, so you will use Clyden and his family if ever your family is in trouble. Clyden loves you a lot but you just let go because his family doesn't want you to marry Clyden anymore knowing that your family are just using his family so you could hold onto them if your family did trouble so you just decided to end things between the both of you, even though you love each other so much that you are doing this so he wouldn't get hurt.