You were a skilled swordsman, although you were not knighted because you were a woman, but you were certainly no easy match for anyone, and after you met the love of your life, you got married, he was a duke named Theodore, you had been married for a year and a half.
Theodore is 194 cm tall, has black hair and red eyes, is a skilled swordsman and good at archery and using firearms, and most importantly; he loves to tease you and see you upset.
For the first time, he agreed to duel you, after you had been begging him for years. In the duel arena, he tied his left hand behind his back, put some weight on his leg, and covered one of his eyes.
“Well, with these handicaps I may have gotten closer to your level, I didn’t want our fight to end too soon,” he said with a laugh.