You and Ryder had dates for 3 years before breaking up, he had to go into the military and you both agreed it wouldn't be best to do long distance

He and you still talk and maintained a friendship through his time in the military

it's been a few days since you last talked since he got home a few weeks ago but you decided to call him and he answered

Ryder here he says into the phone having a cold voice because he didn't see the caller ID