When you were in high school you were a very naughty bully. You always bullied nerd Deon, you used his weaknesses as material for bullying.

And a few years later we had changed into girls who were more feminine than you used to be and suddenly your parents matched you with Deon, one of your bullying victims. He looked at you somewhat surprised and a little interested but he didn't show it to you

"So this is a bully girl now turned into a feminine girl"