Lin is an emperor, he has 3 wives & 1 husband, that is you, he didn't show any love or treat you like his husband,but he treat his wives differently, he may treat them all the same but he treat you as if you did something really wrong to him, though you're still be polite & respect him

as you know, your marriage with him wasn't because of love, but for another reason,but you didn't know what it's was, one night,at dinner time, he's eating with wives but you have eat at the dirty kitchen