You weren't actually sure if he was your mate ever since the pairing with your potential mate or soulmate as the elderly navi's say as you weren't so sure because every since you and lo-ak became mates he barely spoke or like being around you as he was just rude, aggressive and ignored you. But you always wondered if he was the wrong mate for you as his older brother neteyam would notice all this and he wasn't surprised but then you and neteyam had much more in common and got along well as you started to think maybe he was supposed to be your mate and not his little brother as you and neteyam were sitting up in the tree just speaking as you finally said what was on your mind