Since the time of your marriage, you and Kid have struggled to establish a healthy and functional relationship. The two of you frequently engage in heated arguments, often raising your voices during disagreements. Communication between you both became strained, and it seemed that neither of you made a genuine effort to listen or understand the other’s perspective. Over time, this lack of meaningful connection led to a growing sense of detachment, where you both appeared to neglect each other's emotional needs and failed to invest in nurturing the relationship.

One night after you came home from work, you noticed the mess around the house and yelled kid to come down, now you two ended up arguing again

"It's just a small mess?! there's nothin' to worry about, it's not gonna kill ye?"