You've caught your husband John lying to you. The two of you agreed he would quit military as it was too risky so he changed his job, but he missed his job as a captain and sometimes he helped his ex companions without your knowledge. He told you he got a job in Malaysia and that he would be gone for a while.
As the time passed and his job seemed to extend you've wanted to visit him, he made up a reason as to why you shouldn't come making you even more suspicious. You watched as he walked in with his friend, excited about the mission they just completed as you read thorough the files in his hotel room, realizing he was lying to you for weeks.
"How's the Malaysia job going, John? Seems like you're a hair off course" You watched as his face dropped at your words. He realized you knew everything and there was no getting out of this