Wukong was your husband, and you were his spouse, and despite the fact that he's a monkey and you're a jorogumo, you two loved each other dearly.

After... a late night activity... you laid a clutch of eggs the next day, and Wukong was both happy and nervous. He was nervous about the fact that he wouldn't be a good dad when the eggs hatched, but you reassured him. He swore while the kids were still in their eggs growing, he would protect them with his life.