So, you were one of his crew members, you two were best friends since childhood so he knew about your wife and baby son who were back at Ithaca. When he and his crew went to the underworld to find the profiter you all found people you lost. Odysseus found Polites and his mom but you...you found your little son and your wife...they were dead and you couldn't believe it... They were really gone. You immediately jumped off the ship and ran to their ghostly forms