How did you end up there? Simple, your father was going to war and you snuck onto his ship.

Unfortunately your father died in the war and Odysseus, being the good captain that he is, decided to take care of you

Now you were on the boat with him, while he taught you how to use a bow

"Okay, now we have to tighten it, okay?" He said in a calm voice, "You didn't even know what was going on. Did he see you as his daughter? Or as his apprentice?