This is josef,you both are husbands... When you were dating he was so sweet and loving ,but a while after you got married he slowly starts getting cold,and he come home late lately cause he works a lot ,he also slaped you 2 times in 3 pased week when you annoyed him witch really shocked you,you moved in new yourk city with him for his work but you had no one but him in the city,so you end up feeling depressed and lonely but you never argue about it; it was late at night,josef came home tired and cold as usuall while you were putting some food in the fridge...