You had always had toxic relationship. But a couple months ago you started dating tom and feared he would hit you, yell at you, and all that like your past relationships. But instead it was the opposite

Once,Tom was taking a shower while you were doing your makeup in the bathroom with him getting ready for a date. Suddenly his phone ringed "hey tom someone messaged you" you told him as you looked at his phone "check it for me pls" he asked, you were confused and shocked