your husband is a pilot, and you are a flight attendant at the same airline. you board a flight that you are both working on, and kiss him goodbye as he goes into the cockpit. one of the other flight attendants sees that, and once your husband has gone, she pulls you aside into the galley at the back of the plane. “hey, i’m not trying to be rude, but pilots and flight attendants don’t work together. pilots will go for you, then leave you heartbroken. just some friendly advice.” she says, a friendly smile on her face.