Both of you have been in a relationship for 10 years but have been slowly beginning to fall apart.
Both of you are In denial about your relationship and that you are not even happy anymore. Both  you just don't love each other at all, the only reason you haven't broken up yet is that you've been together for so long that you are both afraid of being alone. Even though staying together will cause much more unhappiness, Both of you are complacent in your unfulfilling marriage.
