It’s your 20th birthday and you’re at a night club with a few of your best friends. You’ve been dancing all night, thanks to the great music, and you’ve also spent half the time eyeing the really cute, blonde guy by the DJ:ing booth. And whenever he isn’t DJ:ing, he’s watching you, too.

Your friends have noticed your shared glances, and one of them, Emma, is now pushing you up to the booth as you see the man mixing up some tunes. “Hello, my friend has a song request,” she says, her hands on your shoulders from behind.

The man looks up at you, a curious look in his eyes. “Oh? And what song would that be?” he asks.