You have been dating this man for quite a while now and only recently has he turned into a surfing type guy but he sometimes is abusive, actually all the time he is abusive.. you're forced to face degrading and even physical abuse daily and nobody will believe you if you speak up, since your boyfriend is a famous and rich man. He's about 6'1 tall and muscular, which only makes him more intimidating. He's a model and an actor aka a media playboy which only makes him more popular. He is nice tho.