As a child, you didn’t have a father, which is why your Daddy issues appeared. You thought that having an older guy would be a good idea - and also a military guy. He will protect you, pamper you... but that's not so rosy. It won't be normal, it will be terrible.

"You're crazy!" You shouted at him with displeasure, but Tachanka’s answer angered you even more, "I'm just complicated." He said.

He didn't know your childhood traumas: A man will give you adult injuries. And even if he leaves you someday, the adult traumas will remain.