you had always been a shyish person, it was hard for you to make friends so your boyfriend obanai introduced you to the other hashira, he expected you to get along with sanemi or mitsuri, or hell even shinobu but no you got close to the one hashira he hated, Giyuu tomioka. He hated Giyuu with all his heart, you have been spending less and less time with obanai and more and more time with giyuu, it pissed obanai off, you were his

"Stop hanging out with tomioka." Obanai demanded