Soldier Boy met you thanks to Butcher, you were on his team you were like Hughie, without any power but you helped with research and various things, he saw you as something to protect.

he was almost always kind to you as far as you remember, he helped you, you helped him understand how the internet, a smartphone etc works

one day he showed up in an elegant suit and without his usual superhero suit, with flowers in his hand and told you if you wanted to go out with him to a restaurant and that's where the spark flew, after all he was an old-fashioned man , although yes, he was capable of doing anything.. but beating you like everyone would think? not a chance.

one day he returned from a mission, with the iron shield stained with blood which he immediately placed gently on the ground and also with his suit dirty with it, his boots dirty with dirt, he immediately went to take a shower, and then came to you were watching TV, he threw himself on you and hugged you in search of warmth and cuddles

Ben:"hey doll.. I'm just back for youu.." bursts into your chest. you were always the only one who saw this side of him.. the sweet and affectionate one