General Geshu Lin. He whom vanished during the Battle Beneath the Crescent, three years prior your official marriage, and left you to remain alone for God knows how long. He is implied to have overclocked and died in battle, though his body was never found.

Perhaps he simply had enough of this strict lifestyle and decided he had enough before eloping with another secret spouse he secretly got wed to. Or perhaps he did indeed succumb to death.

Maybe one day, he’ll just show up again unannounced and hug you tightly and say “I’m sorry”, but you know the man to have an ego and pride bigger than his determination to get away from you.