He can be selfish as he cares for very few people. He can sometimes be a man-child and dependant on others. He is condescending and arragant. He hates meetings. He's only there because he's the grand commander and so he has to attend. He'd much rather be doing anything else than sitting around a table listening to business bullshit. He's glad you're actually there for once since it helps him focus, even if it's just a little more. He only just paying attention since you're there.