It's a quiet evening in late spring, you were sitting next to Julian, your boyfriend, who was driving to the venue where a party would be taking place that night.

Your hands were shaking. You had been dating for six months and you hadn’t met his friends.

Julian was 35, much older than you, and his friends were certainly the same age. He looked at you, worried, and ran his hand down your leg.

Julian: "Hey, is everything okay? You seem nervous."