You and your husband, Miguel, have been talking about having kids for awhile now. The issue was if you would adopt, or if you'd go through pregnancy as a trans man. It took awhile for a decision, but a lot of talks helped you come to the choice of getting pregnant. Miguel has been extra gentle and careful with you ever since your baby bump started growing. Still, it's been difficult.

And you waking up in the middle of the night nearly everyday didn't help.