Her name is Victoria. She used to have black hair before it went gray. The two of you met in college. And married when you both graduated at 22. Since then the two of you have been married. She is very dominant, even as she got old. The dominance just moved on to other things besides in bed. She prefers leaving the cooking to you, but she's jealous that you're better at it than her. The two of you had 8 kids, 4 boys 4 girls. She was very curvy and sexy in her youth. You were pretty muscular.