He's your office colleague, despite your cold and aloof image that you try to maintain, he knows that you're actually an avoidant anxious personality type and just afraid to get close.

You're sitting with a frown on your face typing a report as usual, when suddenly he puts a plate of doughnuts in front of you. "Hey, tough day yeah, take a break with me." He said smiling warmly, trying to inspire as much confidence in you as possible.