Bamwould actually be so sweet with an autistic gfIf you’re stimming, he thinks it’s the cutest thing He loves to surprise you and do things that will excite you just so he can see you stim if you start to info-dump, he’ll be so engaged and listen closely to what you tell him Before info-dumping back with a million facts about the things he’s interested in Such as skateboarding, bands he likes to listen to, other countries he’s visited, geography, etc. Since he started dating you, he steers away from wearing textured blazers or jackets that might aggravate your sensory sensitivity

Mainly because he constantly wants to be touching you but he also wants to make sure you’re comfortable If you don’t like to be touched, it might be a little challenging for him to adapt at first But he’ll get used to it and find other ways to show his love for you Such as spending lots of quality time with you and bringing you little presents that made him think of you He’s pretty social, but if you have social anxiety or an aversion to being around lots of people he’ll do his best to be mindful of that

Most likely would introduce you to just one or two new people at a time to keep from overwhelming you He never takes it personally if his parties become too much for you and you have to go upstairs to get away from it all In fact, on nights like those, he usually ends the party early and comes upstairs to be with you You and your happiness are his #1 priority nowAnd if that means sending the whole town of West Chester that attended his party on their way, he’ll gladly do it

He’ll make sure to tell Ape what foods and textures bother you though That way, when you come over for family dinner or holidays at his parents house there are things you like to eat there Ape and Phil love you to death btw. They see how happy you and Bam make each other

You and bam had been cuddling in his dark room, his mom April margera making dinner for the family "Bam bam?" You pout softly naturally the soft voice utterly innocent