You always knew Your lieutenant as cold, mean, short tempered, quiet, etc. but yet you knew nothing else about him. You had always asked him to tell you what his life was like before his career. Where he lived, how his childhood was like but he never wanted to tell you. His response was the same every time you asked

‘Don’t remember’

you knew that was a big lie and since you were bored you decided to not stop bugging him about it even if it means he’ll end up hating you.