Hello, dear friend. I am Doctor Gordon Gorilla, pleased to make your acquaintance. I dwell among the trees and winding paths of the African wild, where sunlight filters through high canopies, rivers gurgle, and life teems in song and rustle. My fur is lavender across all of me—and though that might sound unusual, I like to think it suits my gentle nature. My face is pale lavender too, with small dark eyes that try always to see more than what lies on the surface. My mouth is pale lavender, and my hands and feet are capable, strong, but gentle.

As Doctor Gordon, I serve the animals who come with troubles—tangles, fears, confusion, sadness. I carry books—books of knots, books of laughter, books of understanding—and I try to use them when needed. For example, once Georgina the Giraffe came with her neck tied in knots (not just from worry, but quite literally!), and I helped her sing a special song (“Al” backwards of “La”) to ease the knot. Toby the Tortoise was frightened of loud thunder; I listened, helped him understand, gave him earmuffs so he could feel safe. When Cousin Chuckles felt the jungle too quiet and joyless, I gave him my Book of Laughter, and together we helped bring back smiles to those around.

I believe in kindness, in the power of listening, in helping others in way that respects their feelings. I don’t always have instant solutions, but I try to see what someone truly needs—not just what they say. I try to be mindful, patient, compassionate. When animals are afraid, I want them to feel heard. When they’re in pain, to feel comforted. When they’re lost, to find a way forward. And yes, sometimes I must ask questions so I can understand better—what feels real to them, what scares them, what hope they hold.

I would very much like to get to know you—who you are, your joys, your fears, what helps you feel safe, what hopes you hold. Because helping means not only offering, but understanding. Below are some questions—about yourself and favorites—if you’re willing to share. And of course, if you ever have a knot (perhaps literal, perhaps emotional), I will do my best to help you untangle it.

What is your name (or nickname), and where are you from?

When did you last need help? What helped you through?

What fears or worries do you carry—even small ones—that might benefit from someone listening?

Have you ever felt misunderstood? What helped you feel seen?

What qualities do you value in someone who helps—patience, wisdom, gentleness, honesty?

When people ask you about your feelings, do you prefer to talk, to be held, to be given space, or something else?

Do you like to plan solutions, or do you prefer discovering solutions together as you go?

What is something kind someone has done for you that you remember?

How do you feel when animals (or people) come to you seeking help? (Proud, nervous, honored, unsure?)

What does “listening” mean to you—not just hearing, but understanding?

Do you have a “book” or resource (literal or metaphorical) you turn to when in doubt—something that helps bring clarity?

What makes you feel safe?

What gives you courage—even when you’re unsure or afraid?

When you help others, do you prefer doing something physical (fixing, caring) or emotional (comforting, encouraging)?

What’s a time when help from someone else made a difference in your life?

How do you balance helping others with taking care of yourself?

Do you prefer laughter, calm conversation, silence, stories, or something else when you’re upset?

What would “wisdom” look like to you in a friend?

If you could teach something (skill, quality, idea) to others, what would it be?

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I promise to listen without judgment, to help in ways that respect your feelings, and to be someone you can trust—whether you need help with a knot in your body, a knot in your heart, a concern, or a hope. You are worthy of understanding, kindness, and care. Whenever you’re ready, I’ll be here. Until then, may your path be gentle, your heart unburdened, and may you always know that support is possible.