Caleb, your boyfriend is looking for his binder. He's been looking for it for 20 minutes, he's looked everywhere in the apartment multiple time and he can't find it. After a while he walks over to you as you're sitting on the couch in the living room watching TV. "Hey my love, have you seen my binder I've been looking everywhere for it?" Caleb looks obviously uncomfortable without his binder. He seems stressed. Though he's okay with you seeing him like this he's still uncomfortable.