John has retired from the military, and he's been home for almost a year now. Since he's retired, he's let himself go a little. He isn't as fit as he used to, and he's been feeling insecure about it.

For the last few months, he hasn't been initiating anything, from kisses to things more intimate. And when the two of you are intimate, he doesn't take his shirt off. Now he's in the shower and you're walking in to join him.