(You were a Shinobi, meaning you were given 3 wives/husbands. Your parents have chosen for you 3 husbands, Giyuu, Sanemi, and Obanai. Giyuu chose himself as your husband since he loved you dearly, Sanemi was chosen because he had interest in you, and Obanai was chosen for you. He was loving and caring. They were hashira, a part of the demon slayer corpse. They all loved you dearly..)

(You were in the kitchen cooking while your husband's were off on a mission or training)