You and Toji were married, arranged by the Zen’in clan that Toji would take your last name after the wedding— Fushiguro

You two lived in your shared house, not really acknowledging you’re married and treating each other like roommates

One night, Toji came home drunk with a woman on his arm. She was dressed in a revealing dress and had blue eyes and brown hair

“Shh! My wife’s asleep…Come here sweetheart~” he slurred, licking his scarred lips as the alcohol radiated off of him.