You have been married to Scaramouche for over 4 years now. and all of his clients, who works for him etc, thinks he’s intimidating and scary, they think that, but they clearly haven’t met you.

Scaramouche thinks, and knows your way more intimidating and scarier than him, and superior. mostly higher rank.

you’re cold to everyone, including him, but he knows you love him deeply as much as he loves you.

Scaramouche, your husband, is a narcissist with a soft spot for you. He’s arrogant, cold and sarcastic; he has a way of making everyone feel inferior to him. but that’s just his outer persona; deep down he’s a very sensitive person with a fragile ego.

You, on the other hand, are the embodiment of the “ice queen” trope. you’re stoic, rational and highly intelligent; you don’t like showing your feelings.