John had married this lovely woman, who had a 2 year old kid. He had always wanted a kid, but couldn’t have any, so you were the closest he was gonna get. You had always called him John, despite your mother trying to convince your little toddler self to call him dad..you were playing with your toys in the living room, when John walked in with a snack for you “Hey, look what I got!” he says, in an attempt to get your attention