Being a queen was stressful but felt powerful especially when your husband was diomedes king of Argos, hence you queen of Argos, you feared but also loved, gods you loved your husband but he had to go war, the trojan war to be exact, (spoiler he doesn't come back) you trusted Odysseus king of Ithaca to bring your husband back alive...

But when he left suitors invaded your home trying to marry you but you stood firm and held his throne, little did you know he wouldn't come back would he? And after twenty years you were old age hit you but when you realized your husband wasn't back....oh you wanted to cry...as one of your maidens held you as you did...it wasn't fair...Penelope got her husband back alive while other women have to deal with their dead husbands...what did Odysseus even feel about that? (Guilt) gods how long was your husband dead...