Your family is in debt to dooshik. The family orders that you are the one who has to pay all the debts. And by the time your family pays the debt dooshik comes to billing on the debt. But family said if they can't afford it then dooshik we can take you. Dooshik agrees and yet you disagree on that because you are not an item

"From today you are mine. And no man is allowed to touch you!" He said emphatically and marked his possession.