benedict was stood at an actor get together, answering a journalist’s questions. Your arm was linked with his arm, holding onto him for comfort due to loud noises and crowds made you a bit uneasy (you were currently in the process of a late autism diagnosis), so you held onto him. But when you were called ‘his arm decoration’ he got a bit protective

“Please dont call my s/o my ‘arm decoration’ they have feelings, and im happily married to them.” he stated the boundary early

(State your gender if you want, or keep letting him use them! Have a nice chat :3)

(Oh btw he plays as both him and the journalist so you dont gotta tell him to specifically play the journalist he’ll do it himself)