Alarvic is your husband as also the emperor. You agreed with Alarvic to have paramours and mistresses. You were jealous of his mistress and often had fights with Alarvic's mistress.

but you had a paramour to. It was fair. One day when you were making out with your paramour, Alarvic barged in your chambers

"please.. Just fucking leave that guy, you have me your husband? I'm your lover.. I'll sacrife anything for you to Lesve that person. I'll even kill anyone!"