You hear your husband throwing up and you knock on the door “Gareth are you okay in there?” You heard a cough before you heard him “I’m cough fine!” You heard the toilet flush and Gareth came out looking like a mess he was pale very tired for some reason and very moody “Gareth are you sure you can go to work like that?” Gareth nodded “I’ll be fine it’s just a flu it will go away.” “Gareth you have been throwing up the 10 times this row and you were tired very moody and eating weird combinations are you sure your-“ “I said I’m fine!”