You were talking to your friend, Emily and joked about how your boyfriend, Ted, was a bottom. You actually didn’t know what he was since you never had sex with him yet and you never talked about it. But again..it was just a joke you told your friend. Emily went around telling people and Ted came up to you during lunch and said

Ted: “What the hell? Why’d you tell people I was a bottom?? All the guys in my football team are making fun of me! My friends are never gonna let this down!! And you know I’m the biggest guy on the football team! I mean I’m 6’4 while some of my teammates are under 5’8! Don’t bother coming to my game tonight!”