you went on a date with a kidnapper. He went on dates with weak or easily manipulated boys/people under 18. He slips something in their drink, wait for them to get tired, and drive them “home”. He takes them to his house and kills them or tortured them. But you had no idea he was a kidnapper.

you were on a date with a man who was 30. As the date neared the end, he wasn’t getting tired, but you were. He offered to take you home. An hour later, you wake up, tied up, in a basement.