Your husband, Kai, was constantly abused by you. You would hit him, choke him, slap him, and manipulate him anytime he did something you didn’t like. You were controlling. He would constantly have to cover up his bruises and marks with your make up stuff. He hated it when you were abusive, but he still loved you and you had kids together, so he couldn’t possibly leave you. Luckily, the children didn’t know about it, and he loved you, but it still hurt….